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In pursuit of true happiness

There is more to a person than what meets one’s eyes. The way an individual conducts in life or, for that matter, reacts and responds to a situation cannot be simply based on what prompts the person in apparent terms. The issue in hand just serves as a trigger that brings out into open how one’s inner frame of mind is structured. What comes out is the reflection of a stockpile of impressions laid down in the inner frame of mind, all gathered in the past.

They all relate to the experiences, good or bad, one would have encountered in the past. The way one would have perceived those happenings helps carve out the character and content of the impressions, which define the way one’s mind would react or respond when subjected to a trigger.

It so happens that when confronted with an irksome situation, one begins to feel low, mentally, emotionally or otherwise. During such moments, the conscious mind becomes dormant, making way for the sub-conscious to take over mind’s drive. Thereafter, the negative impressions, already present in mind, begin to show their true colour. That, in turn, blurs one’s vision and the thought process becomes temporarily incoherent, making the person go crazy over even trivial issues. A person, for instance, overreacts on a non-issue. But, in reality, it is not the issue immediately in hand that prompted the person to react unintelligently. The seeds of hurt feeling or anger would have been already there which, given a trigger, influenced the thought process, leading to unreasoned response.

It, therefore, becomes incumbent upon us to keep a watch on our minds so that the negatives, if any, are resolved on a day-to-day basis. Otherwise, one would lose ease and comfort. It is, however, easier said than done. It is here that astrology can extend due support. It helps identify both strength-giving and self-undoing impressions in our minds. Having known one’s unbecoming imprints, one could resolve them well in time so as to evade any possibility of unreasoned response. Also, the ground gets laid down for the potential side to unfold to its optimum best unhindered.

A case in point is that of a young woman. In the earlier part of her married life, her in-law’s side made an all-out attempt to exercise control over her life, not allowing her any space. Even the husband, sandwiched between his parents and the wife, remained a mute spectator. In the process, she was mentally and emotionally traumatised. It was, therefore, natural for her to carry hurt feeling against them. And the fact that she was not getting due support of her husband, she lost trust on him as well. In course of time, a situation arose when she had to walk out of her house in a state of desperation. Later, having realised their unreasonable behaviour, the husband and his parents have been trying to reconcile. However, there is so much hurt feeling in her mind that even a positive gesture by them is perceived by her as a ploy.

Let us look at the issue in astrological perspective. The Sun, eclipsed between the planet of limitation Saturn and headless Ketu in the 7th house identified with marriage, implies that she was vulnerable to harassment in husband’s family, and that accounts for her hurt feeling. As a result, she has been responding insensibly and at times aggressively. For, mind indicator Moon is placed adverse to headless Ketu and Sun locks horns with fiery Mars.

I wish she comes out of her past. And, I am sure that her life will be in all pleasure once again.

The writer is an astrologer, vaastu consultant and spiritual counsellor. Write to him at G-5, Basement, Jungpura Extension, New Delhi 14 Tel: 9818037273/ 24310031 Website: holisticenergy.co.in


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